go I regularly see posts online, as I know you do, showing acts of kindness, or stories of people just being lovely to each other and they are usually accompanied by comments of how this restores one’s faith in human nature. But I’d like to think that being nice or kind is more common than these posts might make you think.
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These are tiny acts of kindness and would not make it into any headlines but they demonstrate very clearly to me that being kind makes us feel good. Whereas avoiding the opportunities to be kind actually makes us feel uncomfortable. So I think we are programmed to be kind and helpful to others – it produces its own reward, not to speak of all those blessings that get showered on you.
‘What would love do’ has become a new mantra for me. I’ve realised by taking the route of love can only bring happiness to all concerned.
I could do a lot more I know, but I’m happy I’ve made a start and delighted to find the benefits of kindness. Admittedly I haven’t saved a dog from a tsunami or given a homeless child my coat but I’d like to think I’d be up for it if need be and I’m sure you would too.