You brought Evan’s wife into the argument and now choose to play stupid. I think you will find love again too. SE, you bring up ONE individual’s cursory research that says 38% choose men over 5’10, and then erroneously assume the rest will date any guy under 5’10, no matter how far under? Thanks. I even have Noone45 flat-out lying.. just lying, about what I have said. I’ve said it more than a few times: “it’s all superficial”. It’s that “League” thingy that were talking about. FWIW, I’m not hung up on height, either. And Evan brought him up initially, not me! You can’t have this both ways. I say this as someone who’s not naturally very self-assured (Catholic, big family, tall poppy syndrome country) but am learning the skills from dates like that guy – Just fake it til you make it ;). Nevertheless, if you’re going to lump height in with the rest of the above, and given that most women feel free to judge men (harshly) based on height, then you’re only lending credence to my claim that it should be okay for men to openly ask women their weight, as part of the dating process. You can’ be “perfectly fine” with men to have a preference for younger women and not be “for” it. they consistently receive push-back here too. Get a better job, surround yourself with a level up. Sprecher, S. (2001). Of course, my anecdotal evidence, which I admit is not proof, per se, goes completely against what you state. https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/sex/do-tall-men-get-laid-more. . The sweet and lovable truck driver with a “good heart” is not going to hear back from the hot, smart, successful 32 something. All, I, EMK and the rest of us are trying to do, is to let you know that all hope is not lost for short guys. She is a highly educated women from a upper middle class family who has traveled the world. That was exactly my point: there is no fairness, per se. Perhaps one of the sadder facts of existence is so much of what directs your life outcome is completely out of your control lol. But you are right, that is why everyone stays single and is frustrated. You’re very focused on what you want. That right there…all you need to know about the difference between what men experience with online dating and what women experience. Right? When you recognize and accept that reality, you will be much more successful on the dating sites. I’m on the fence about Evan, but I’m not going to say a word about her.